Thursday, 31 December 2009

First Giveaway: First Giveaway: Moo Moo Kow™ One-Size Cloth Diaper!

Hehe... my cloth diaper lover friend!

Here is the chance to get a free diaper.

Look like very nice ho?!

Don't forget to have a look at her blog - Mummy’s Reviews!

Good luck!

Wednesday, 30 December 2009

Mann start to crawl?



My Mann showed she want to crawl?! Jia lat la for me... i will be more buzy lo looking after her alone in Ipoh.

Tuesday, 22 December 2009

Mann is 5 mths on december

I am too buzy to update my blog nowaday. So i am late!

Mann is 5 and 1/2 months now. Big girl lo.

Now,what she can do
- on her on tummy so that she can search for her victim, to carry her.
- request more milk now but i can't produce more due to the previous mastitis. So she have to supply with Babynet formula(organic cows milkbecause i want to minimize the intakeof vaccine and even animal hormone.)
- start playing little games like hire and seek and love to made the wawa sound wt my hand on her mouth.
- love others praise her.she will laugh very loud.
- sprouting her first teeth! So she just love to bite! Especially to my nipple! OGH!
- become clingy and anxious around new people and may cry if a stranger suddenly approaches her. So call stranger anxiety.
- Kor kor and Jie jie love her so much! Buying anything,must have another set for her too.
- Still Yeh yeh (Grandpa) is the best guy for her because Yeh Yeh cancarry her 24 hours.
- loves flash cards!

Why you are taking photo? I dun like it!


Haha... why you are making funny face to me?

Wednesday, 18 November 2009

Mann's curly hair

Today is 17th Nov, so Mann is 4 ½ months now!

I never crop her hair tillbotak. Just let it be as natural asit can be. But ho, you see - She had curly hair! Gene from where? Now only I knew that my mother in-law had curly hair.

AND This is what I always wish for and at last one of kid had curly hair. Hehe… No wonder I always asking myself why her not “standing” one ha?

Tuesday, 3 November 2009

Mann is 4 months old today!

My eyes big enough?



With my FIL in the car, Mann will never sit in her car seat. FIL said kesian to Mann kena ikat.



"Who are you? Why you are in my territory (house)?" Mann will stare to you if she doesn't know you. Scary ha!



She just loves to on her tummy, anytime! So that she can see, i think.



"Why elephant have long truck? I just love it!" said Mann



This is the only thing i have to say YES to Mann. I HATE pacifier! But without it, Mann refused to sleep at babysitter place and even in the car. I am so terrible - cheating my own baby! :(

Tuesday, 27 October 2009

You see, how my little baby sleep!

I wonder how your baby sleep?
My going to 4 months old baby slept like that!



She's been practice this style for almost 3 weeks when she knew how to turn herself on tummy.
First 2 weeks, this kiasi mommy need to woke up almost every hour tocheck on her, but now, she slept i slept! LOL




Still won't forgot mummy breast!

NO eye see...

Sunday, 18 October 2009

Mann's progress - 15 weeks old!

Yap, she is 15 weeks old now! Time fliy too fast - mummy getting old liao. hehe...

What she can do:

1) smile and laught too.

2) will cry if she dun want u (aiyo, ppl want to carry her also have follow her mood!)

3) She can turn on tummy since 10 weeks! But that time head can't leave on too long yet,now can leave it on for 1 minute.

4) Night time sleep on tummy. No matter how frequence i turn her back, she will turn on her tummy again! And she knewhow to change her head position fromone side to another side.

5) Not just turn on tummy, she will try to move if she put anything in front of her.

6) She loves flash card! Oh... and book too!

7) Bad habit - must have pacifier then only can go to sleep. Off cause, if "live pacifier" around sure she will only attach to me. She will cried to find me! Or in nanny house, have to sumbat with pacifier. If not she can awake from 8am - 8pm!

8) Still breastfeeding! Mummy almost "dried"! In 12 hours, she need almost 28 oz! each section 3 - 4oz! Usually 4 oz. em... all my stocks almost finish liao. Need to pump more!

9) She is having fun with her pacifier. Holdby her own hand and pull in and out, and she laught! Cute little one!

10) Love to bath. She will be very quiet when put in bath tub.

11) Love to sleep on her tummy. Turn by herself.

12) If i am around, sure she will looking for me to go to sleep. She will show her "qi cham" face to me! LOL



Hello!



See,how she turn! I took this photo on 30 Sept.Today... she love to on her tummy!



Am i cute? P/S: very hard to take photo when she is smile.



Ok, i am 3 mths old today. And i love to kick kick kick... especially if i am unhappy, coz mummy didn't carry me just put meon the big pillow!

Wednesday, 23 September 2009

Superblur!

This mummy is a superblur mummy on IT.

I never understand what everyone had write in IT language.

So ape boleh buat? keepon blur lagi la.

Friday, 4 September 2009

Mann's 2 mths old

My Mann is 2 mths old liao.

Ok, about her:

Mann loves to smile when anyone show silly faces, funny noises, sing a song, even just Mann to her also can make her grin and giggle.

Her head become stronger that allow her to hold her head up. Especially during bath time, kiasi!

Never sit in the stroller. Cry like hell! So, that stroller i bought since Jing'stime until now still nobody using it. can sell it?

Can reconize Yeh Yeh sound who loves to carry her whole day! Yeh Yeh said she can slept nice in the boucer so he let her slept onhis hand for 2 hours! Mummy also no eyes see.

Breastfeed time stable a bit liao. But still, mummy feed on demand.

her weight:5.6kgs
long:61cm

Tuesday, 11 August 2009

Cloth diaper - Gro Baby and Kissaluvs

I bought one size CD from Sandra (Mia Bambina). Want to try the Gro Baby System (since the shell can be use repaeatly) and Kissaluvs Fitted (Chanel and Chinnee told me more absorb).



There, i received it on 8 Aug and it took me 3 days to wash and dry 3X, weather not really good in BM, Penang. Look nice leh!

Just now want to try on my Mann, first trial on her. So tiny, it's cute! Right?



But ho, just after snap the photo, she made big business!! So, first trial on solid. I should buy 2 set!

Thursday, 6 August 2009

Updated of Mann - Mummy is very tired....

Today Mann's 1 month and 3 days old.

Confinement lady went back on last sunday. So mummy had to take care of Mann all by myself. I need to bath her, feed her (feed on demand), change her, entertain her...

Her progress...

She woke up, first want to be feed. Searching left and right looking for mummy McB. 1, 2, 3, still not coming, then she will start with "ek, ek," sound, very softly sound. Then after 5 second, started " EK, EK, HEK, HEK" sound, louder sound. After another 5 second " OGEK, OGEK..." CRYING liao... So let her cried, if i am busy in the toilet or cooking.

After feeding, need to entertain her! Talk with her and play with her, if she didn't back to sleep. ON MY hand , OK? neverever think about put her back to the bourcer.

When Yeh Yeh at home, he just LOVE to carry once Mann making noise. Tu lah... now Mann habit - can't put her back to bourcer is she is awake.

ok, till now. She is crying liao...

Thursday, 30 July 2009



See, she refuse it!

As i am in the hospital to repair my episiotomy (actually not episiotomy but tearing!), so not bring Mann together. My confinement lady,my mum and father -in-law will take care of her.

Icprepared 5 X 2 1/2 oz bags of breast milk, Adiri bottle and event pacifier and formula milk. Just in case mah!

So when i return (i was away from 7 am to 5 pm),she's drinking off 3 X 2 1/2 oz bags breastmilk, MUST suck pacifier then only can sleep (my mum said between that timejust slept <4hrs.) , formula milk not used (who want? Snow 0-12 mths formula), only drink the breastmilk from bottle when really hungry...

Pity my Mann! She MISS my McB! and Just now when latch on McB, she's SMILE! Hubby also beh tahan! LOL

Wednesday, 29 July 2009

Mann - 27 days old

Oh huh... Mann is 27 days old now.

Updated:

1) Asking for McB almost every 2 hours. Mummy tired loh!
2) Will shout when mummy a bit late to carry her when she is asking for McB.
3) Response to mummy or anyone who talking with her with the sound "oo oo.. eeg eeg.." She LOVE it.
4) Didn't poo poo for 1 1/2days and today can poo poo very "thick" poo poo 3 times in 5 hours. Must use brush to remove the poo poo.
5) Asking anyone to carry when she is awake. When you put her back to bauncer she will started cry.
6) STILL jaundice loh. Hope that tomorrow can decrease to below 200.
7) Asking to bath 2 times per day if not will start making noise.
8) Night time SURE will asking mummy to carry her till she is deep sleep before put her into baby cot.
9) Jie Jie and Kor Kor "still" love to play and talk with her, and she's response.
10) Ah Ma (my mum) asked tokong and said that Mann don't like other "seeing" her, so i wonder can i still put her photo online ah?

Saturday, 25 July 2009

Oh, my God - Restitch!

As previous My nightmare during delivered u will know how bad my stitches is!

I met the Ketua Jabatan O & G, Hospital Pulau Pinang yesterday. Seem like my "command" worked! He checked on me and agree to redo the stitches on my tearing area because the stitches done before really $#@&*%... Not done properly and since i am still on leave, decided to done it as soon as possible. And i told him, NO Local Bius! I can't stand the pain!

The minor surgery will be done on next Thursday. Wish me luck!

Monday, 20 July 2009

Jing and Yang update

Jing - 6 years 2 mths

- is big Jie Jie to Yang and Mann
- More problems to mummy
- Don't like Yang coz always complaint Yang disturb her a lot. Actually not,just Yang really like to FOLLOW what Jing do!
- Doing very good in her study. Will automatically do her homeworks if have after dinner.
- Loves to read, paint, attend her music class, attend Enopimath class.
- Not really love vege anymore. Why? Ah mah and Yeh Yeh said eat vege not nutrient woh,must eat more meat and fish...
- Loves Mann because Mann is a gal not a boy. She claim that boy more naughty!


Yang - 3 years 9 mths

- Still so active! Mummy so tired
- Still refuse to study/learn, but now at least willing to hold the pencil to write if in good mood.
- Love to FOLLOW jie jie, whatever jie jie dod he also want to FOLLOW.
- LOVEs vege, because mummy waqshed his brain if didn'ttake vege can't poo poo.
- Loves Mann as she is a baby!?
- Love to cry also. Anything unhappy will cry only!


Their reaction when first saw Mann

Jing - oh... baby. So cute! Look like me? have big eyes like me? etc... all kind of questions!

Yang - Baby... I am kor kor. (Turn to mummy) This baby came from ur tummy? why only one? inside (point to mummy tummy) still have another one ah? Baby have "luili" (punjab - penis)?

Jing was so happy when i told Mann is a girl but Yang a bit dissapointed. He always expect a baby boy and asked me to get him another baby boy.

Tuesday, 14 July 2009

Mann's 12 day update!

Mann is 12 days old now.

She knew...

- SMILE! But mummy not manage to take her photo yet.
- CALLING FOR MILK! By crying in loud sound.
- REFUSED TO SLEEP! Why? because she want to poo poo.
- SUDDENLY CRY VERY LOUD SOUND! When kor kor disturbing her.
- Will QUIET when anyone carry her. She enjoyed been carry by someone.
- SHOWING RESPONSE WHEN MUMMY FLASHING CARDS TO HER! She love it.


BUT...

- Poo at anytime she wants, even at 1 am, 3 am and 530am!
- Want to suck mummy "pacifier" then only can sleep! Aiya... bad habit!
- Allergic to wipe and nappy rash cream. So mummy using cotton ball with water and lotion only.
- Allergic to those adult didn't wipe their face and kissed her. Wah... mummy so sakit hati when patches of rashes at her chic.
- STILL JAUNDICE! 264.5 umol/L of bilirubin level. Em... Thursday sure will ask to redo all the blood tests and urine tests. Pity Mann!



Did u notice that she is still look "yellow"?

Friday, 10 July 2009

Mann's jaundice and my eSpring

1)Mann's Jaundice
Haiya... Mann's jaundice was in increasing trend. Today is 283.9 umol/L. Tomorrowif increase to 300 then will admit. :(

2) WATER TREATMENT

Hak, finally i got my dream water treatment - eSpring! Hubby managed to put it on Saturday, the day after i get back from hospital. Nice leh?!

Thursday, 9 July 2009

Haiya... jaundice

Again, this one also seem so "yellow"! Mummy need to bring Mann go to nearby Klinik Kesihatan almost everyday.

Day-4 - Total bilirubin : 249.6 umol(from vein)
Day-5 - Total bilirubin : 253.2 umol(from vein)
Day-7 - Total bilirubin : 267.5 umol(from feet)

So, need to repeat again tomorrow. If the trend still going up, don't know what they are going to do to Mann? I think will redo all the neccessary tests again including Liver Test Function. After that,only can confirm whether is it Pro-Long jaundice due to breastfeeding.

Em... Pity my baby.

Wednesday, 8 July 2009

Lee Mann at day-6 and my night mare during delivered

Hello, sorry for late update. Celcom Broadband benggung around my area!

Ok, she is now 6-day old. A very good "sucker" - refer to drinking mummy breast milk lah! She can find her "teat" by herself, drink until she is full.

First day, discharged from hosp after 12 hrs because both mummy and baby doing well. (Actually I am not doing well- refer below.) Then she didn't sleep whole first night at home. Mummy like zombie...She refuses this that... and want only "pacifier" that hang in front of mummy. Can't leave her anywhere or anyone. I felt like dying! I delivered her middle of the night, till the next day didn't get good slept leh! It’s over 36 hrs!!



Second day, after bath, still the same, cried, cried, cried... Since the weather was so hot, FIL decided not to tire her hand, leave both hand out. SHE SLEPT WITHOUT MAKING ANY NOISE! Em... At night, slept tight IF slept beside mummy not in the baby cot!



Third day, hak, she look "yellow" - jaundice liao! Aiya... kena cucuk kaki lagi or admitted under UV light. Same, WANT to sleep beside mummy. Refuse baby cot!



Forth day, busy day. Early morning, Zombie mummy need to prepare herself and baby to go to nearby Klinik Kesihatan because Baby Mann looks really very "yellow". So, her bilirubin level was 252.5mmol. Need to refer to nearby hospital. So, daddy and mummy need to rush to hospital, redo the SBC again and the level is 267. Then asked to admit. When reached wad pead, blood was drown from vein to recheck again. But pead said the reading should be lower. She asked us to go home and wait, results take time. At 330pm,they call and Mann bilirubin level was 249mmol. No need to admit. Just need to repeat at the next day. She and I were too tired. Both of us slept quite long time. hehe...

Fifth day, again return to hospital. Mann bilirubin level is 259. But still not at the dangerous level. Bottom line for day-6baby is 342. So just need to repeat after 2-day. Phew... no need to admit. One more thing, Mann didn't poopoo for 2 day liao. Nurse teaches me how to stimulate for her to poo poo. Immediately, Mann's poo! on that day in 6 hrs, she's poo 4 times with very big potion! Yak...

Sixth day, today, mommy's milk already comes for 2 days liao, Mann is latching well. I didn't feel any very pain engorgement. I managed to pump out few oz and let Yang drink it. Hehe... just mix into his oat milk, he will drink one. Still yellowish in color, full with antibodies!!

So far, I still can manage to handle her. Jing and Yang not at home, they are with my mum. Jing caught flu so I decided put them with my mum. I miss them very much! Oh... They saw their little sister through photo only. Pity ha!


NIGHT MARE!!

Ok, Now I will talk about my bad experience in Penang Maternity Hospital! My first delivered in private hosp not a good experience, second delivered in GH, better than private hospital, so this time off cause go to GH lah.

I admitted at 1 July night, due to spotted since morning but very mild contraction only. 2 July stay in GH, so boring! Contraction so irregular, sometime 10 minutes sometime 1/2 hrs... Doctor decided to discharge me if 3 July stills the same. Not ready to deliver yet. 1st class still full has to stay in 3rd class wad. Hot hot hot... I kept bath bath bath...

on 3 July, early morning (middle of the night), "pop" what a loud sound! and I feel wet! Op... water bag burst liao. I was push into labor room at 115am, because was 4 cm dilated. Knew what? they gave me a NSM ( Stuff nurse under training).

I told the NSM that I would like to have a “sit up” position but not “lay down” position. As I had a 2nd degrees tear during deliver my 1st baby at private hospital (this is why I choose government hospital but not private hospital because I believed that stuff nurse had more experiences that private hospital’s gynae – theoretical!?). After that, Dr Liew checked on me and confirmed (or teaches) NSM how to make sure the water bag was burst. Dr Liew asked her to him when it’s 6 – 7 cm. Then he walks away. NSM asked me to scream for the nurse if I am ready to deliver.

I counted the interval and the time of each contraction until it’s contracted every 1 minute and I can feel that my baby is ready to come out (ready to push). I called for the help. SN Merigani was the first person came in. I wonder how she can walk like this, so slow and no energy! I told her that I am ready to push already. Then NSM rushed in and stand beside me. SN Merigani done nothing on me and just asked me pushes. She was in “tak ada ape ape mood”! NSM wants to put me at “sit up” position was asked “NO NEED” to do so by SN Merigani. SN Merigani just stands in front of me and shout:“Mana student? Mana student?” I ready can’t stay the pain, and she told me to push. I attend the ante-natal class before, I knew how to push. Hold my leg and push with mouth close and head down. But as I said this is not my “right” position as I will leave my buttock up and cause the tearing. Another Chinese nurse was there too, she tried to ask me to put my buttock down and help me to put my buttock down. At last, I delivered my baby at 2.13am. Then SN Merigani pulls out my placenta and asks NSM to measure it. Then SN Merigani just walked away like that. She not even checked whether I had any wound and is my uterus “clean” enough?! (I still remember my previous delivery the gynae and nurse will press on my uterus to clean) NSM checked on me and told me that I had tear so I need to stitches. She said she will ask SN Merigani to stitch for me. I never knew that the tear is until my anus! I can count how many stitches done on me. When SN Merigani tried to stitch my outside skin I feel very pain, NSM told me that due to its outside skin that’s why I feel pain. Just 4 times SN Merigani stitched on my outside skin! And I knew that “Oh! Shit! Not stitch 3 layers must be very “chin chai” stitches.” NSM looked very ignorance, as she was still in the practical for kursus kebidanan, she can’t said anything, just told me that it’s a small tear only! Still I don’t have mirror I don’t know how badly my tearing and stitches! It was state at my record book as a minor tearing only! As by 03 July 2009 morning, doctor in-charge or the nurses on duty not even checked on me how “bad” my wound is because everything depend on record book only. Doctor did say I can discharge because I already urine and fake and need to wait until my baby urine and pass motion too.

At 2pm, I asked to go home because my baby already urine and pass motion. I asked the nurse on duty can I asked to be checked on my wound before I go home, and the nurse refer to the record book and told me I only had minor tearing only, don’t worry. When I return home, the first thing I done was to check my wound – its TEAR UNTUIL MY ANUS! AND U ALL CAN TELL ME IT’S JUST MINOR TEAR!!! JUST GIVING ME 2 STITCHES FOR THAT WOUND!!! I checked at my TRUSTED Clinic Doctor and he also told me the same thing – THAT SN MERIGANI DONE A VERY VERY VERY SIMPLE AND ROUGH STITCH TO ME. I WILL FACE THE BOWEL AND CONTRACTION PROBLEM AFTER RECOVER. I AM EVEN GIVEN ANY ANTIBIOTIC TOO AND IT’S INFECTION! NOW, I CAN’T EVEN USING ANY “ENERGY” TO PASS MOTION, THE SOFTEN BOWEL MEDICINE ALSO GIVEN BY PRIVATE CLINIC DOCTOR. IF NOT, I CAN’T PASS MOTION! AFTER RECOVER, I KNEW I AM GOING FACING BOWEL PROBLEM, I NEED ANOTHER SURGERY TO “STITCH” BACK MY MUSCLE OR I CAN’T BOWEL AS NORMAL!

I wonder how a Senior Stuff Nurse can do like this to me! That night not busy. I still heard the nurses’ chit chatting at the counter. I stay in the room till 430am then only they send me to my bed, since 1st class still unavailable I stay in 3rd class. I won’t mind for that. A senior stuff nurse, she suppose to teach the NSM how to done a proper job in the labor room. Is that the way what SN Merigani teaching? I feel shame as government stuff! As a lot of people giving very bad impression to government hospital, this is what and how the government stuff making the situation so bad! Be professional ok?

one more thing, I am not allowing to breastfeed my baby at the golden 1/2 hours. Mann success to latch on me after 1hrs 15 minutes!!

I already complaint until JKN Penang. I wonder what kind of action they going to take!

P/S: Received reply email from Pengarah JKN Penang, Dr. Teh. She will investigate.

Wednesday, 1 July 2009

Her name - finalized!

Finalized - She will name as Mane.



Just bought a book - The very best baby-naming book ever with 50,001 names! (seem like i going to have 4th, 5th, 6th ... kids lagi... LOL)



It's only RM5 at Carrefour, Perai.

Wednesday, 24 June 2009

Lee Munn's up date at 39 weeks

Yes, she is 39 weeks old now!

Still my tummy height is 37cm, didn't drop at all! Ah... i have to wait...

Her head is in lightening position, waiting to come out anytime (but it's since 36 weeks.).

And extimated weight - 3.625kgs! I feel like going to faint! Her head diameter is 11 cm! Woh...

I think i should control my diet from today onward till i deliver.

So please pray for me for smooth deliver. Thank you.

Wednesday, 17 June 2009

Yang made me a sandwich!




This is piece of sandwich Yang made for mummy. But ho... he don't know mummy "hates" tuna right now. Still, i have to finish it.

Thanks, honey!

Monday, 8 June 2009

Update of Lee Munn at 36 weeks

Munn is moving to 36 weeks now! Quite sometimes didn't update about her.

My Yang still wants baby boy! So what to do? I don't know yet.

Went to gynae visit last week, success pursued gynae to take 4D scan for me, but ho... Munn already in lightening position, but not yet "lock" totally in the pelvis. I can't see her face liao, moreover she faced to my back. So my gyane said:"Em... seem like your baby ask you to save that money and want to give you a surprise!" Ok, that's it! I can save RM100+!

My friends who due date supposed early than me 2 weeks, already gave birth. Seem like the percentage for Munn over due is very high. Jing over 2 weeks and Yang over 1 week.

Here is the results i play at Facebook - "What Will Your Baby Be Like?"
She is Ah Cute Little Angel Girl and She Is Beautiful And Would Nevah Be Naughty Nyce One!!

Saturday, 30 May 2009

Merdeka! Merdeka!... ha?? It's May,my dear.



See, this is the flag that made from my Yang. He shouts :"Merdeka!..." enjoy himself for 1 hr. Yes,1 hr only, then he will think about others. Headache!



Creative ha?! just 2 pencils and lot of stickers!

Monday, 25 May 2009

How to teach?

Yesterday Jing was kena belasan kau-kau by DH, her buttock have a lot of cane scars.
Why?

I wonder it's my fault to be a working woman and left the kids with other person, such as grandparent or babysitter. Jing stay with my mum since i started to return to work. There in my mum house,my sister also left her kids. Total have 4 kids in my mum house. My mum is ok, cause i always share with her how to grow a kid follow the modern way. But my sister... she never teach her kids, her style is beat the kids and never explained! So what do you expect a kid, how much he can understand what by himself.

I noticed that Jing not really close with Yang this few weeks. I try to talk with her and explained to her, why she need to "care" to her own brother, bra...bra..bra... But ho... yesterday she did something really made daddy angry and mad!

1. Daddy bought her 2 pics of cakes. So as a caring sister sure you will share with the brother one pc, right? but no, she didn't share and she can ask Yang to eat the cake that dropped on the floor only! Ok, daddy warning her.

2. She love to paint. Daddy bought her one whole set on water color. She prefer to paint during Yang's nap, so that Yang won't disturb him. But yesterday, Yang woke up early, she didn't share too. She can purposely washed the left over color on the plate and don't let Yang to paint! even thought she haven't finish painting yet.

DH really get mad that time. Sure lah daddy caned her like mad! I was in the room, and i can't move too fast to protect her. I was so shock to hear from daddy. Actually daddy try to solve the problem by himself since he want to reduce tension on me. But tak boleh tahan! Whatever daddy or i or anyone buying something for Yang, sure Yang will ask for one more set because he wants to give it to jie jie (Jing) too. He loves his sister very much.

And because of hubby beating Jing, my FIL started a fight with hubby as Jing was his beloved grand kid.

Last night, when settle with Jing, i asked her again,can she did it to her own brother. She said can't. But she also told me that she "hates" Yang. She didn't told me why even i asked. She just told me that Jie Yi (Sister's youngest kid who same age with Yang) more cute. I just told her that she is not your own sister.

Today, FIL called me and told what he has ask Jing. And now i know why - My sister eldest daughter who is in standard 2 "ask" Jing not to be friend with Yang or she will beat her. I wonder is it true a story? But what i know from previous is Jing will follow whatever my sister's daughter say or no one can play with Jing. If my mum noticed it, she will punish the eldest one. Usually ask her to stay in the room, she is the one can't play with other.

What should i do? Told my sister? She just like hell!! I don't want to start a fight with her again, she and i being quarrel for the issue how to teach a child for several time already. Since she want to "move" her kids from my mum house, just hope so the time pass more fast. She moved to her new house and it's too far from my mum house, her MIL will take care of the kids. I really no eye see! But to my kids, if my sister still want to leave her kids with my mum, i am going to "move" Jing out from that house and to Ipoh, no matter how hard i have to take care of 3 kids!

Tuesday, 12 May 2009

It's OUR time!

Hubby is coming tonight, because he is going to KL tomorrow.

I didn't fetch my Yang back home in this few days because i always return from work quite late and I am very tired! The swine sera sample is estimated over 10k!

Since hubby said he is coming so i decided want to bring Yang back, but ho... hubby said:"No. It's very HARD to find the ALONE time!"

It's true also,since first baby born, both of us never have ALONE time. Even travelling we brought our kids together.

Hm... so tonight is ALONE time!! Actually not also, because no.3 is in my worm now.

Thursday, 7 May 2009

H1N1

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Sunday, 3 May 2009

Learning difficulty

I found that Yang has learning difficulties. I found that he recognize V, W, etc in opposite way. Talk with DH and both of us agree that we need a Educational and Counseling Psychologist.
Ah... I need to make a reservation and deposit on that private hospital first.

Wednesday, 29 April 2009

Yang:" I am Superman!!!"

From the title i bet you know what will happen to him!

Yap, he sprained his right feet! Lucily no fracture.

What he did - he jumped from the slide! I wonder where he got this ideal?!

Teacher said heart attacked! Me too...

Tuesday, 21 April 2009

U see what Yang's done!!!

I am going to faint!!! He insisted want to wear the dress so that he can "turn" (dance) like the dancer from the movie. But... phew... he changed after enough "playing" !

video

Saturday, 18 April 2009

Handle 3 Kids?

I wonder how am i going to handle 3 kids after i delivered no. 3? i am going to take extra leaves so that 3 of them can be together for sometime. Just wonder how am i going to be?

Wednesday, 15 April 2009

Is pig under live stock category?

I wonder that anyone can give an answer?

"IS PIG UNDER LIVE STOCK CATEGORY?"

If is Yes, why my research project about was not approve? and the reason given because PIG not priority!!! But Agriculture Ministry emphasize that want to increase research on LIVE STOCK!!!

So... WHY???

Pig industry in Malaysia is the second biggest livestock sector after poultry by contributing 19.3% to the livestock communities.

I still don't understand!!!

Actually i am quite disappointed! If it's not "halal" to you don't mean that everyone need to follow you, right?

Sunday, 12 April 2009

rhinoceros VS hippopotamus

My kids asked me to read them a book. So when i read till the page Animal in Grassland, there was a rhinoceros photo.

Yang:"Oh... hippopotamus!"
Jing:"No, it's rhinoceros!"
Yang:"No, you are wrong. It's o!"
Jing:"No. Mummy tell Yang what is it?"
Mummy:"Yang, Jie Jie is right. It's a rhinoceros. See, rhinoceros has horn on their face but not hippopotamus."
Yang:"I learn from school. Teacher said it's hippopotamus."

Mummy... Oh! So, he did learn something from school ha! I thought he just play only! hehe...
Em... What should i do... I search the whole book but can't find the hippopotamus picture. Ok, i surf on-line.

Mummy:"Yang, see here is the image of hippopotamus." Compare with the book, " See, the different between these two animals. Are they the same animal?"
Yang:"(took him 10 sec to compare.) Em... not the same animal."
Mummy:"This is rhinoceros and this is hippopotamus. ok?"
Yang:"OK."

Then he showed me his satisfaction face. What a kid!

Thursday, 9 April 2009

Rainbow

How long never see a rainbow? I think quite a long long long time...

I am so lucky! Nice, right?

Tuesday, 7 April 2009

DH going to china!

em... Dh is going to China and i can't follow!! Ah... I want to follow.... I want to buy a lot of things...

Monday, 6 April 2009

Allergy Part 2 - The reason?

Refer to Allergy, i wonder Yang's allergic was because i let him play with the snail for one whole day? Infection from snail? as snail is intermediate host for some diseases. Em... Don't know because baby sitter's husband throw away his snail and Yang was so sad about it. Poor Yang.

From that snail, Yang learn a lot of knowledge. This "gila" mummy search from book, Internet, etc. all about snail and tried to explained to Yang. I wonder he understand it or not?! Haha...

Thursday, 2 April 2009

Nice dress,but the price...



I wonder when i took this photos? Forgot!

Due to Jing had very less dress, so decided want to buy some nice nice, cute cute dress.


These dresses very nice and cute ho... But per piece is at least RM119.00!! so, at the end, buy nothing...

Wednesday, 1 April 2009

Painting

Both my kids love painting. Especially Jing. She has been asking me to buy the water color for year,just i don't think she is ready yet. But ho... she success to pursuit DH to buy for her when she went shopping with DH.



On Saturday,


Today, mummy is busy. Mummy need to go out to buy baby's things because it's Anakku sale day. I bring Yang together. When i returned... Jing is painting. Daddy said she wants to. (Actually ho, DH "lazy" to entertain her by read her a book, teach her in maths, play with her... I just knew it!) Then Yang want to join too. Both of them are first time "playing" with water colour.

Jing said DH draw her a view picture. (Ha? My DH can draw? What i knew was he always fail in act during secondary school.) But Jing still accept it.
Yang said he want a picture same as Jie Jie. I just draw for him la. But later he said he want a crocodile.

Here were their finished paint.


From Jing

Yang's crocodile


Both of them enjoy very much. What a peaceful afternoon for mummy and daddy! haha...

Tuesday, 31 March 2009

Just a short note

By Lilian - the 5X mom:

To those whom have contributed to the meals for the homeless, there is an article in The Star Metro North about the food distribution.

I have also counted the dollars and cents and come up with a rounded figure. I have RM508 balance in my hands. I do not know what I will use YOUR money for yet. There are many ways I can make sure the money goes where they are intended and that includes buying necessities and handed out to the folks who need them. My coursemates and I are thinking of making more documentaries (with the proper permissions, of course) to highlight the plight of these people so that more people can come forward and donate to their choice of charitable organisations which will benefit the poor. So, let me sit on these ideas first.

Jimmy made a short clip about our homeless video. You gotta watch it. At one point, I whacked Jimmy and told him I don’t know to laugh or cry. I find it so funny and yet, so touching that Jimmy put that much emphasis on LGE. I hope Jimmy managed to get the clip to the CM and let him see. We wanted to hijack the projector and show this clip yesterday but we were afraid of getting banned like NST reporters. LOL. So, brother, you are their only hope.

Yang vomited! But Jing is fine.

Aiyo... Mummy so tired but this lit' monster vomited on my bed last night!

He didn't have any appetite in these few days. He ate a bit only and refuse to drink water only wants something have taste.

Yesterday went to babysitter house, he ate a lot! Lit' stomach can't cope for it, so vomit la. But surprisingly he slept very very well last night.

This morning, when i was busy washing the bed sheet cover and blanket. i heard his sound...

"Mummy, Yang Yang still feeling not well. I don't want to go to school today. I want to go to aunty's house."

"ha?"

"I am very tired. My head pain (headache)and my legs too. I can't walk."

"...... OK."

Since he seem OK, but still have to monitor one more day.

I wonder why he complaint his legs pain? But wonder he was real pain or he creating it? Or may be because he didn't gained enough energy this few days? DH said must refer to doctor if he kept complaint leg pain. May be due to acid uric? Yang loves Broccoli and Dal curry.

Em... Jing was so tough. She can wake up at 630am last weekend following DH to "cheng beng". On Monday, still the same schedule - need to go to kindergarten as usual, AND without any complaint on here or there pain.

Why my Yang so weak? Babysitter said due to i am pregnant with daughter so the son will always fall sick. May be, i think.

Friday, 27 March 2009

Allergic!

Both my kids allergic to something. Jing allergic to certain foods and Yang allergic to detergent! This is the main reason i insisted want to breastfeeding, because i am allergic to detergent too. But ho... still they are allergic to it, but mild compare to me.

I thought Yang is going to 4, so decided to change his bath shampoo. Just to a usual children bath shampoo brand. About RM15 per less than 1 liter.

See, this is what happen after 2 weeks testing. On both his elbow and palm.





Poor Yang, and BAD mummy...

Update of me

For got to add, My Mann's is estimated 700g now.

I am OK now. This 2 days what i do at home? Eat and sleep! Oh... and online for a while. I didn't think of my works. RELAX!!!

The contraction seem lesser, < 5 times in a day and each time only 5 - 10 minutes.

May be due to the medicine or because i really rest a lot? Hope everything back to normal after this week.

Wednesday, 25 March 2009

I was Admitted!

I was admitted on Monday! My tummy was so "hard" from 11 am till 430pm and Mann's kicked so softly, so rushed to hospital. By myself. My gynae not around so decided to go to government hospital, since only my gynae and GH had my pregnancy records.

I was so lucky, no need to wait so long because the 2 patients before me have been waited for >2 hrs. Ipoh labor room was so busy on that day!

Then training doctor asked a lot of questions, took my blood samples, urine sample and vagina swabs. Then need to wait for the gynae for the ultrasound scan. BY 6 pm, my tummy still so hard! The ultrasound scan showed my baby is ok, moving and heart beat so strong. Gynae said may be due to my vagina discharged cause the contraction. She wanted me to admit and wait for the swab and urine results. BY 7pm, all done and I have to wait for hubby for admit registration.

Hubby was in KL, poor him need to rush to Ipoh because I had no other relative in Ipoh. When he reached its 10pm! Mean I sat at Dewan Bersalin from 7 to 10pm. Still haven't taken my dinner! Asked for permission to go to the attached store to buy myself a box of Milo, 2 Gardenia bread, a mineral water and a big box of soy bean. I was damn hungry, finished the Milo and 2 breads in 5 minutes!

When hubby registered me to the wad, he need to go back to my Ipoh house to get the change and needed things. Then off cause he went around the Ipoh to get me the food that I ordered. Sorry, if not I will vomit what I don't like.

I wander why this time the Braxton Hicks contraction so different? The next morning, when another specialist (I think he is the head gynae.) came and check on me, I ask him is it too soon to have Braxton Hicks? He said yes, because I am just 25 weeks pregnant and it’s started 1 ½ months ago. But if the contraction didn't follow by pain, like labor pain, it's normal. But since my contraction didn't stop for more than 6h ours, I should refer to hospital. According to the urine and vagina reports, urine was clean and normal. But vagina swab infection was 1+, it's should be normal range but due to I am pregnant may be my worm is too sensitive to the infection and trigger the non-stop contraction. I had a Candida infection during my early pregnancy. The gyane decided not giving me any antibiotic just anti-fungi insert pill. I need to return on 6 April to see how's my progress, if still the contraction continually, he will want me to admit again to find another possibility reason, because I don't have labor pain contraction, just the non-stop contraction. I asked whether because I walk too much? He said no related. I was given one week MC. Now I return to BM, at least my hubby no need to rush between BM and Ipoh. My family is here too, they can help. My false contraction still on and off, but less than 15 minutes, it’s normal.

I am also so happy, my colleagues visiting on the next day. My room was so full with them. They even scolded me why I came to hospital by myself but didn’t call for help. I said I still can manage myself. They said this is what friend is that help each other when alone in strange place. Thanks, my friends. I am so touched, especially to Prem, Nurul and Zawida! They called me to ask me what I need also, I asked for another lunch. LOL… The quantities of hospital lunch not enough! They also bring me tea break foods. BTW, thanks to my unit stuffs too, they said after i return to work i am not allow to walk just ask them to do all the works that i want to do.

Another person I want to thank is my hubby. Poor him need to rush here and there. On Monday, he forgot his dinner till after settle me into wad. It’s after 12 am! His colleague said he really rushed to Ipoh, took only 2 hours to drive from Cyber Jaya to Ipoh! I love you, darling!

Monday, 23 March 2009

Lee Mann's Progress

Seem like i didn't update about my 3rd coming baby quite sometime.

She is now 25 weeks old. Expecting come to this world at 2 July. Way to go. Mommy still can wear the nice and beautiful preggy cloths. hehe...

She kicked me a lot now. Calling mummy 1, mummy 2, mummy 3, mummy ... none stopped kicking when she "feel" she is hungry and in uncomfortable position. I wonder why my 2 girls kicked harder than boy?

She will wake up when daddy calling. In anytime! But no response when Jing and Yang called. May be this will another daddy's girl again, i think.

Gynae scanned early this month, and told me that she is developed well. He scanned her internal organ, count the leg and arm length, the head diameter... Just mummy tummy a bit low and still the tummy will harden for more 1/2 hr each day - early contraction is bad.

My appetite is getting better now. At least i have more food to choose, but still love the organic foods! I still have to make sure whatever i intake is less or free of preservative,coloring, fragrant, synthetic compound, etc..

I had plan want to take a 3D picture if Lee Mann this coming check up. My gynae charge RM50 each photo only. Hope that Mann cooperate!!

Friday, 20 March 2009

Contraction

Ah... it seem like my contraction start too soon leh...

In this 1 1/2 months, my tummy always "harden"! Not a good sign. Taking medicine liao, but seem like only can less <50%.

What should i do? I already cut down my the frequent to walk here and there. Think i should take a bed rest?

Pray for me, ok?

Thursday, 12 March 2009

Yang again... Woke Up!

Seem like this few days "learn" how to get cranky and refuse to wake up from the bed. He want me to start talk with soft voice till load voice! Then he started to cry. %$#&@... Then i to "drag" him to brush his teeth and bath. He turn to smiling face after the bath. May be because of the cool water, i think.

Yesterday still the same thing happen. He cried till after bath. Then because of his long pants zip can't function so i changed to short pants. AH... he started to cry again! &^%$#@*... Then i started nagging to him and so beat him on his buttock lah. Cried for nothing!

I can nag from home to his nursery. He just kept on cried and cried. Actually we planned to go to restaurant for his favorite half boil egg and milo ice (not at home, although same menu.). But i told him if he still "act" like this every morning, i am not bring him to any restaurant, breakfast only at home. When i stop nagging, he stop cried. He went to nursery with very very sour face. His teacher also surprised to see him because Yang never showed sour face like this.

I think he really understand what i "nag"! Last night before go to bed (my private time with my boy.) i asked him,

"Yang, can you cried like this morning? cried for nothing only."
"Nope. (shake his head.) I naughty ah?"
"Then, do you want to repeat like this everyday?"
"Nope. Mummy get angry then." ... "If tomorrow Yang behave good, can i go to kopitiam?" (Look at me with his lovely smile. Oh...melt my heart.)
"Can. If you really behave well and wake up once i called you."
"Ok! Yeh...."

This morning,

"Yang, wake up. (in soft voice)"
"Em... (with his eyes closed.)"
"Do you want to go to kopitiam? or you want to your nen nen?"
"Em... I want nen nen. Not going kopitiam. I want to sleep for a while."
"OK then, i made nen nen for you only ha. Not going kopitiam ha."
"Hmm...(he felt to sleep again. Usually another 15 minutes before i called him again.)

Important thing: He didn't cried today.

Wednesday, 11 March 2009

Tired.... AND Yang Progress....

Just can't stop myself to close my eyes... I am so so so tired... But ho, i slept at 1030pm and woke up at 7am, still not enought.

Ok, tonight going to cook energy soup(精力汤). It's chinese herbs, save to pregnancy woman. I think i should increase my protein intake liao, to gain more energy. Or i should reduce my works?? LOL

Yang still so active loh. No eye see! Just make sure he didn't hurt himself and burn the house enought.

Now, every night i read him a / several book(s), depend on his mood. Start to write? No way, he refused. He, luckily not refuse to color because this mommy like him to do matching game. All took about 1/2 to 1 hour. Then he will be in his own time and mummy too. He will draw, coloring, playing puzzle, Mr Potato, reading... Mummy continue her works, again...

Saturday, 7 March 2009

Handy Mandy

AS u all know, boy loves "fixing" things. Yang also the same. I never buy toy with a lot of screws "showed out". Or after 1 hour he will try to open the toy with screw driver! :(

See, i am so lucky. Found this Fisher-Price Tool Kit through Internet. hehe... still brand new in the box. Only RM40. Toys R US selling RM95+. Who untung - Yang Yang lah...

Friday, 6 March 2009

Josephine

I been pass by this Josephine Bar and Bistro every weekday. And did read from mylovelymummy blog, she also said not bad. Actually ho... i am not dare to try unless someone recommended. Still in Ipoh already 4 years, can't find any western restaurant that "gam" to my taste. hehe...

So, beh tahan liao, went there last night for my dinner. Alone.

Unfortunately, they don't have any Italian style soup. :(

Drink
I ordered for myself a banana milk shake. As i love milk shake and hak.. they have banana taste one. Taste really "banana"! LOL



Appetiser
I ordered a josephine fruit bowl. It's a mix fruits topping with fresh yogurt. The yogurt taste good, just i don't like green apple.



Main dish
I having spaghettini aglio olio. Spaghetti cook with wild mushroom and extra virgil olive oil. I love the taste. Especially the mix herbs and spice make the dish more aroma.




Ok...that's all. I am full liao just gam gam. i think i will bring my kid next time. Sure both of them will love the spaghetti very much.

The price... a bit expensive loh...

Wednesday, 4 March 2009

TIME LIFE and Grolier

I bouth TIME LIFE Book series for my kids years ago. But Jing not interesting at all! :( (Hubby and i heart feel so "pain", spent $$$ but she not interest with it!)
But Yang started to show his interest liao! :D

Now i started to play the VCD and CD for him everyday. Instist of i made the 1 - 10 number and A to Z flash cards to him. Same as montessorimum, "suffering" teaching our son!! I used to read the books for Yang every night - bed time story using TIME LIFE or Grolier book.

Both montessorimum and i wonder why our son just can not pay attention on study leh?! May be boy different?? slow??

Hubby and i spend $$$$ on these TIME LIFE and Grolier book series. Hope that my kids really "learn" something from there. Off cause, parent need to join together lah!

Medela Pump in Style Advanced Backpack??

I like this breast pump because i need to go out station quite often. Channel told me that Spectra 3 not bad but only thing is Spectra don't have battery option.
In Malaysia,i found that the cheapest price i can get is RM1519.20. Singapore, S$659.00 and USA,USD$200. The different is USA using 115V. Malaysia and Singapore are direct import from Switzerland.
So... which one to choose ha?

Thursday, 26 February 2009

Buy or not to buy?

Shall i repurchase another breast pump?

I have Avent manual breast pump. Still functioning. But ho... it going to more time to pump if compare to electrical pump like medela breast pump,Spectra breast pump,and etc.

My works like never ending... i need something fast, fast, fast. But ho, electrical pump too expensive! Medela one over RM1500 and Spectra one don't know the quality yet.

So, want to buy bo leh?

Wednesday, 25 February 2009

Yang: " Today i study. Can i drive the fire engine?"

My Yang now "showed" that he want to study liao. Why?

First - both teacher and i "push" him a bit.
Second - everyday will have great lecture from this ngam ngam cham cham mommy.
Third - He was so afraid that he can't drive the fire engine as i told him if he don't know how to read, he won't ever can drive the fire engine because he can't read the sign board and press any button.(evil mom!)

His improvement still very slow loh. but at least he is showing he want to study or in other ways, he can sit still to study liao. Never expect him to write yet!

ah... a long way to go kok!

Tuesday, 24 February 2009

Spiderman!!



Just bought this Spider man slipper for Yang. He is very happy with it. He put it beside him bed when go to sleep.

This morning insisted want to bring along his Spider man slipper to nanny house. He said he must show this Spider man slipper to his auntie. LOL!

Monday, 23 February 2009

Jing's visited dentist!



Jing went to visit dentist on Saturday.

First, she was changing another tooth and second she complaint she feel pain inside when eating food. Oh...she's having teeth decay!!

She was so brave. Didn't cry at at all. But from now on she "knew" that she need to take extra good care of her own teeth. She said she hate the "em...em..." sound during dentist "grail" her tooth. haha...

Wednesday, 18 February 2009

Yang is making own music!

Mommy was too busy doing works, as i kept on asking Yang wait until i finished mywork then only i am free to turn his favorote Kindermusic CD on.

video

See, He can't wait liao! He just put on his ankle bells and making his own music by beating the empty oat milk tin with spoon. Haha.... He loves music very much!

Tuesday, 17 February 2009

Yang refused to study!

What should i do leh? My Yang refused to study but not rejected to go to school.

The nursery teacher complaint to me that my Yang refused to learn. He argued with the teachers! He told his teacher that he wants to play only. :(

I am so headaches with him. Till today, maximum 3 fresh cards only!

The teacher told me that they have to push him a bit and hope that i understand. I told them please do so as i am pushing him at home too. No more toys (cars, etc) for him only reading and some educational toys (matching cards, puzzle, trace the line, etc) for him now! I have to do so. I am not expecting he become a genius but at least at his age he knew 1-10 and A to Z mah.

em... What should i do leh?

Tuesday, 10 February 2009

Sunset

It has been a long long time didn't wait for the sunset.

Today i have the time to relax myself especially alone!

Very nice.